Diario de _bec_ca, 11 dic. 21

Indeed! 

Becky,💕 I decided to stay home today as I want to get ready, not only for Christmas, but for camping next week. Work is overwhelming, I keep forgetting about living a life outside of it! Specially with Kentucky’s disaster today, we need to be thankful for family and friends, plus I have a new grandson due, (yesterday). I was wanting to mention how wonderful you are, hosting people you don’t even know. You’re such a treasure that is on this planet!!!♥️ Acting so courteously when you wanted to kick ass! I think it is following your mother’s ways which helped you be so wonderful. My mother lived in the world that kids do your own thing and I’ll do mine. I went looking for that kitchen towel, couldn’t find it, but buying a funny one anyway for my best friend, “Alexa Do The Dishes!”😁 I have never ever asked my best friend hubby to get me anything, but when we stay at hotels he always goes out and gets me coffee on his own. It’s such a treat and very loving.😊 I truly believe, as old as I am, emotions can give rise to cancer. Take your time, choose your partner wisely!!! I think of my hypothesis when my BIL’s wife died young from cancer. He is a genius in some ways, yet a male chauvinist pig in others, and said mean things often to her, and I!!! I loved leaving that house, I still believe it’s because he’s short and has to make himself feel bigger. Ahhh, I keep going on, I thinks it’s because I have time to ramble!🙃 Anyway, I appreciate you Becky, and truly love who you are!💕🌺 

Shrewd, good move staying home. 👍 I don't know how you ladies do it, go to work, have a career and manage doing anything else besides! I hope you have a fantastic restful time camping next week. And get all of your Christmas things done. Oh yes, so very sad what happened in Kentucky. I can let tragedies like that really get to me. The other day one of my best friend's (since high school) father passed away. She told such good care of him and his passing was unexpected, although he was in his late 90s. Well, we were getting ready to go to a Christmas get together, our friends were having, when I got the call about friend's father and boy was I in a nasty mood. When I apologized to Joe, he said, well it's because of Georgia's dad. I sometimes don't check in with myself in time to avoid the negative behavior that comes up if I don't acknowledge certain feelings. All of that to say, I understand feeling sad for all those poor victims in Kentucky.  

Just lost a long response on here! 😫 In short - If I find a towel with similar saying, it's yours. I like the one you picked for your friend. 😁 No big deal with ill-mannered guests. I'm too tired nowadays to say anything and my old age goal is to not allow somebody else's bad behavior determine how I am going to feel. Another saying my mother would use, "don't stoop to their level, you're better than that". 👍💗 

Shrewd, about your sister in law and cancer. There's a sort of profile for women who get certain types of cancer. When I had it, I cleaned my house and also started clearing out relationships that weren't good for me. I believe that people come and go in our lives. Some are meant to stay for the long haul, while others just for a time until we learn what it is they are there to teach us. So, lessons can be learned from someone as loving as your husband, as well as someone the complete opposite as your BIL. Shrewd, you are too generous with your compliments. I do thank you and appreciate you, but I am an ordinary person, no better, no worse than the next. I simply choose to focus on the good stuff in people and in life, most of the time.❤ 

Joyful indeed🤙🏼 

Thank you Kat! 💕 I was awake at 4:30 this morning, scrolling my own journal to get some inspiration in irder to get my be-hind in gear! So, oatmeal and fresh fruit answered the call. 👍😁😋 

Thank you acomandr. 😊 

Happy Saturday Becky!!! This pic reminds me to relish little moments of peace in this hectic world.  

Thank you Bear. 💕 Yes, always something to be thankful for. I thought of you this morning as I ate my oatmeal, especially when I had to stop short by 2 tablespoons of finishing. I just couldn't. 🥴😄 I hope you're having a nice easy weekend. 💕